To love is to suffer

[A.m.ir]

To love is to suffer...

To love is to suffer.
To avoid suffering, one must not love; but then one suffers from not loving.
Therefore, to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer, to suffer is to suffer.
To be happy is to love; to be happy then is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy;
therefore to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness.
I hope you're getting this down.

Woody Allen

[Angel]

To love is to suffer, but affliction is a treasure. So to love is to own that treasure, and afflict one's little soul by owning too much!
Then, what can be the right solution to end one's suffering, to give up the wealth? or to enlarge his capability ?